Dialogue Daily

Married and engaged couples dialogue daily to communicate feelings about issues within their relationships. This tool has helped save and strengthen marriages across the globe. Topics include conflict, communication, forgiveness, child rearing, finances and many, many more. Married couples can understand how their spouse feels about an issue. Engaged couples can understand how their fiancé(e) feels about an issue. There is no judgement, no right or wrong answers simply, “How do I feel about this topic?”.

This process takes 20 minutes total, 10 minutes individually and 10 minutes together as a couple. Couples do not need to be in the same location to use this tool. One person chooses a question for the day. They send the question to their spouse/fiancé(e) via the app. Each person spends 10 minutes writing a letter to their spouse/fiancé(e) about how they feel about the question. Each person chooses their strongest feeling on the topic to explain how they feel.

The app provides a timer to help pace your writing. When your letter is complete, you share your letter with your spouse via the app. Together the couple schedules 10 minutes through the app to spend reading and dialoguing to understand their spouse’s/fiancé(e)’s feelings expressed in their letters. The couple then chooses a question for the next day. The couple repeats the dialogue process on a daily basis.

Understanding the feelings behind a topic often leads to understanding the actions taken on a topic. The dialogue daily process gives couples that insight.